i would try to hazard a guess on what one woman wants and not on what all women want (although, i would love to,) and hope i do justice
i speak first as a single lady that desires certain qualities in the man of my dreams, tall dark and handsome is great, but i want a little bit more.... kind, helpful, not stingy, fun, savvy and hardworking and not violent...
i find such a man and marry him and a few years later, what i want is modified... i want him not to change from all the great qualities that attracted me to him...i want him to be a little bit cleaner with household things, i wish he was more prayerful, i want him to be more helpful in the kitchen, it would be great if he made a little more money so we could buy a few luxuries and enjoy some trips....
i struggle now to remember the date of our wedding and still want some things as a woman... i want him to be less frivolous, clean up after himself, not be so consumed by gadgets and toys, have more than one source of income, be more involved and supportive with the little tykes, cook something else besides noodles and egg, buy me jewelry,plan for our retirement, buy some assets or build a house,change my car, consider laying in bed to sleep and not just for sex, and if sex, try a new position...
i have been married for a while now and my dear, i only want one thing. i want "My Man" my own Man, warts, frivolities, imperfections and all!!!