I just started a character challenge group with some ladies, and one of the first questions I asked them was to write the trait they would most like to change, and most of them wrote *shouting.*
Shouting is a very common trait amongst women, especially mothers.
I also asked questions such as
Who do you shout on?,
Who influenced you? etc
It was discovered that our childhood plays a major part in helping us be women who shout today.
It was not something we liked, but unconsciously we have started shouting too on people weaker than us.
Some women also extend it to their husbands unconsciously and it causes a major problem in marriages.
Are you one who shouts?
What can you do to change this character trait?
What positive traits would you rather be exhibiting?
Do you need help?